I list some suggestions to people, particularly who are new to software, that they can follow to get more helpful advice:
- Software is not something you can just start doing without some training. Spend some time in a classroom or on a dedicated tutorial web site before asking really easy questions. You would not expect to go onto a doctors website and ask for advice on drug doses if you were not medically trained.
- Do not agree to do a project that is far too difficult. If I am asked to do a job, I might not know everything but I will know enough to approach a problem and think about what I need to learn in order to be able to complete it. Asking somebody how to do the whole thing will not help anyone to give you advice and I'm not sure if you expect somebody to sit down and spend a day designing a system for you for free, just because you asked.
- Ask specific questions, you are more likely to get answers. If you ask "what style sets the strokethrough on a text label", you will probably get a quick and friendly reply. If you ask, "how can I write a music download site", you are unlikely to get anything helpful.
- Use the search engines. I cannot believe how many people do not start here. They are fast and effective although sometimes you need to know the correct words to search for.
- Ask friends/colleagues/teachers for help before asking complete strangers. They are more likely to be able to help and you will not spend hours trying to explain what you are doing.
- Pay somebody else to do it (if you are commercial anyway). Why should you get free technical support and design services. If you are able to do it - great, if not, you either don't get it or you pay. You wouldn't ask for a free car just because you can't afford one. Either that or improve your own knowledge and maybe you can do it.
There are lots of people like me who really do want to help people - even newbies - but are turned off by people who seem either lazy or unqualified to do what they are doing and not willing to pay for the right person.